The problem with this is they never really define what responsible is.From my experience, what they mean by responsible is “safe". They want some castrated man with spiked hair who never takes chances, never moves in a direction that might make them feel unsafe, never walks the path less chosen. They want a guy who is just bent to their wishes for “their dreams" ie, the house, the car, the baby, the whole nine yards.

她们所谓的责任感，到底是什么?这就是问题所在。

就我长期观察，她们所谓的“责任感”，其实就是“安全感”。

她们想要一个男人，这个男人可以任由她们摆布;

这男人从不会令她们感到不安;

这男人最好盲从大众，在人生旅程内，不会走那些崎岖小径。

她们想要一个男人，这个男人最好能依照她们的意愿行事，

最好能将她们的意愿当作自己的梦想，

最好替她们买个房子，买辆车子，养个娃儿，买一堆东西!